So you’ve been invited to a Sikh wedding, or maybe you’re planning one, and you’re wondering — what actually happens at an Anand Karaj? Is it short and sweet? Is there dancing? Do I need to cover my head?
Yes, yes, and yes.
Let’s demystify the vibrant, sacred, and soulful Sikh wedding ceremony.
🛕 What Is an Anand Karaj?
Anand Karaj literally means “blissful union.” It’s the Sikh marriage ceremony, typically performed in a Gurdwara (Sikh temple), centered around spiritual equality, unity, and divine love — not just romance.
There are no vows, no fire rituals, and no priests. Instead, there’s music, scripture, and intentionality.
🪶 The Ceremony, Step-by-Step
1. Milni (Meeting of Families):
The families greet each other with garlands and hugs, usually with a side of subtle flexing (look out for the watch game).
2. Head Coverings & Shoes Off:
Everyone — men and women — must cover their heads. Shoes stay outside. No exceptions. No excuses. Turbans, scarves, and dupattas are the move.
3. Kirtan & Ardas:
Hymns are sung from the Guru Granth Sahib (Sikh holy scripture), followed by a group prayer (Ardas).
4. The Laavaan (Sacred Rounds):
This is the heart of the ceremony. The couple walks around the Guru Granth Sahib four times, each round representing a stage of spiritual union. Unlike Hindu weddings (which have seven rounds), Sikh weddings have four — and they’re sung, not spoken.
5. Final Blessings & Karah Prasad:
Sweet sacred pudding is shared (yum), blessings are given, and the couple is now married — no “you may kiss the bride” moment, but lots of joy.
🎩 Dress Code & Decor
- Men typically wear kurta-pajamas or sherwanis; women go full glam in lehengas or salwar suits — just keep it modest.
- The decor? Minimal in the Gurdwara. Save the sparkle for the reception.
🕺 What Happens After?
A high-octane reception, obviously — bhangra, butter chicken, and bottles of bubbly (though some Sikh families may abstain). Think grace meets grandeur.
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